What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 28.06.2025 05:12
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
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Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Have you ever been forced into bestiality?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
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46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
What legal actions can be taken if a neighbor's unleashed dog causes harm or injury?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
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47~ What would be your dream job and why?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Why do I get stressed when I go to bed?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
If sea levels were rising, wouldn't the acreage of coastal salt marshes increase? Are they?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
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Any that are a turn off?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
If you win, what will you make them do?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
39~ What are your love languages?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Please share Did you stop?
*** Random Questions ***
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Nothing too Serious
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
*** Questions About Me ***
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
52~ What are your hobbies?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Would you read them together?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
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11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
29- How superstitious are you?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
What is your favorite position? Why?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
How old are you? Male or Female?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
The Ice Breaker Questions
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Any that are a turn off?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Family Relation Age Play
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
If yes, what?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
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75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?